Buy a dildo: from lifelike shapes to glass and metal

A classic dildo is a sex toy without a vibration motor that is used manually. There are realistic shapes, abstract designs, and models with extra features or attachment options.

Dildos are not tied to any one gender. The application depends on the design and the manufacturer's instructions. A model intended for vaginal use is not automatically suitable for anal use.

Dildo or vibrator?

A vibrator produces vibrations with a motor. A classic dildo does not. Because some dildo designs also have a vibration function, the product description is more important than the name alone.

Realistic or abstract

A realistic model has an anatomically inspired shape and sometimes extra texture. An abstract design can be smooth, curved, or otherwise profiled. The appearance does not automatically tell you how firm or flexible the material is.

Double designs

A double dildo has two ends, but the permitted application varies by model. Check the dimensions and instructions before using it solo or together.

Specific shapes

Larger, profiled, or inflatable designs require attention to their specific construction and usage limits. Choose only a model that matches your comfort level and desired use.

Anal models

For anal use, choose a dildo specifically designed for it with a wide base or suitable stopper. Do not rely solely on a curved shape or a product photo.

Outer diameter

The width of the insertable part is an important dimension. Compare it separately from the length and keep in mind any ridges or wider sections.

Insertable length

The total product length may also include a base, handle, or attachment. See which part the manufacturer intends to be inserted.

Straight, curved, or profiled

A curve or texture can feel different than a smooth, straight design. A curved shape does not automatically make a model suitable for every application.

No mandatory progression

You do not have to work your way up to larger sizes. Experience is not a reason to choose a size that does not fit your comfort level.

Flexible designs

Silicone and other flexible materials can vary in firmness. Check the exact composition and maintenance instructions. A material name alone does not tell you how soft a model is.

Hard designs

Glass and metal do not give way like a flexible material. Therefore, carefully compare the shape, dimensions, and weight.

Finish and parts

Before use, check for cracks, sharp edges, damaged coatings, and loose parts. Do not continue to use a damaged toy.

Temperature play

Only heat or cool a toy if the manufacturer explicitly states the specific model is suitable for it. Follow the indicated method and limits and avoid extreme temperatures.

A dildo can be used manually if the design is intended for it. Do you want to use a model with a suction cup, harness, or other attachment? Then check the instructions and compatibility.

Suction cups

Follow the directions for a suitable surface and check the attachment before use. A suction cup is no guarantee that a model will stay firmly in place in every position.

Harnesses and other systems

Check which dimensions and attachments are supported. A base or connection that seems to fit does not prove that parts are compatible.

Playing together

Discuss wishes and boundaries beforehand. The person on whom the toy is used must be able to signal that it needs to stop. Use a double design or attachment system only as described by the manufacturer.

Intended use

Read the manual. For anal use, choose a model designed for it with a wide base or suitable stopper. A curved shape, handle, or suction cup alone is not proof that the product is suitable.

Compatible lubricant

Follow the manufacturer's recommendations and the directions provided with the lubricant. Take materials, coatings, and any condom use into account.

Cleaning

Use only cleaning products and methods permitted for the model. Do not assume that every material can be boiled, submerged, or disinfected in the same way.

Drying and storage

Allow the product to dry completely and follow the storage instructions. Protect it from damage and store materials separately when the manufacturer advises to do so.

Comfort and complaints

Do not force anything and stop if you experience pain, numbness, blood loss, or other discomfort. Seek medical help for persistent complaints or if you cannot remove the toy.

What is a dildo?

A dildo is a sex toy that is generally used manually and usually has no vibration motor. Shape, dimensions, and intended use vary per model. Not every dildo is suitable for both vaginal and anal use.

What is the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?

A classic dildo has no motor and is moved manually. A vibrator produces vibrations. There are also dildo designs with a vibration function; check the product description for the precise operation.

How do I choose a suitable size?

Compare the outer diameter and insertable length, not just the total product length. Also consider the shape and firmness. Choose a size that matches your comfort; a larger size is not a goal in itself.

Which dildo is right for a beginner?

There is no fixed size or material choice suitable for every beginner. Pay attention to modest dimensions, a shape that appeals to you, and clear usage instructions. Choose based on comfort and intended use, not just on a beginner's label.

Can I use any dildo anally?

No. Choose a model that is explicitly intended for anal use and has a wide base or suitable stopper. Check the manual; a curved shape or suction cup alone is not proof of suitability.

What feels different between silicone, glass, and metal?

Silicone can be flexible, while glass and metal are generally hard. Firmness and weight vary by model. Check the exact composition and dimensions; no material is the most pleasant choice for everyone.

What lubricant do I use with a dildo?

Follow the manufacturer's recommendations and check the directions provided with the lubricant. Take the material, any coatings, and condom use into account. Water-based lubricant is often a practical choice.

How do I clean and store a dildo?

Follow the cleaning and storage instructions for the specific model. Check which agents and methods are allowed. Let the product dry completely and protect it from damage. Do not continue to use a damaged dildo.

Can I use a dildo with a harness or partner?

You can with models that are suitable for the desired use. Check the attachment and compatibility for a harness. When playing with a partner, agree on wishes and boundaries and ensure that you can stop immediately.

Can I heat or cool a glass or metal dildo?

Only if the manufacturer explicitly states the specific model is suitable for temperature play. Follow the indicated method and limits. Do not use extreme temperatures, the freezer, boiling water, or a direct heat source.

View the dildos on this page and choose based on your preferences for shape, material, and application. The product information helps you compare dimensions, attachments, and any extra features.

Your order will be packaged discreetly. Our Dutch-speaking customer service team based in Hellevoetsluis is happy to help with any questions about product specifications.

For example, take a look at our realistic dildos, glass dildos, metal dildos, or double dildos.