What is a Strapon?

WHAT IS A STRAPON?

A strap-on is a sex toy that uses a dildo worn on the body with a harness. This allows penetration, regardless of gender or anatomy. Strap-ons are used by all kinds of couples, from straight to LGBTQ+, and offer a wealth of possibilities in the bedroom.

THE HISTORY OF STRAPS

Strap-ons are anything but new. They've been around for thousands of years. In ancient Greece and China, people already used simple versions made of leather, wood, or even stone. During the Middle Ages, their use became less visible, mainly due to religious influences. Only after the sexual revolution of the 20th century did strap-ons become more widely accepted again. Today, they come in all shapes, sizes, and materials, from soft silicone to high-tech versions with vibrations.

DIFFERENT TYPES OF STRAPS

  • Harness : The classic strap-on with a dildo that you fasten around your hips. Harnesses can be made of leather, nylon, or elastic.
  • Strapless : A double dildo where one end is worn internally by the active partner. This eliminates the need for a harness.
  • Hollow Strapon : This variant is worn by men

Advantages of strapless:

  • More freedom of movement
  • Stimulation for both partners

Disadvantages:

  • More difficult to keep in place, especially when using it for the first time

MATERIALS AND QUALITY

  • Silicone: Soft, body safe, easy to clean and feels realistic.
  • PVC & TPE: Cheaper, but more porous and less safe. Always use a condom.
  • Glass & metal: Hypoallergenic, sturdy, and suitable for temperature play. A bit harder and less flexible.

HOW DO YOU USE A STRAP-ON?

New to strap-ons? Start simple:

Choose a comfortable harness

Use an average sized dildo

Tips:

  • Talk to your partner about what you like and don't like
  • Practice without sex first, so put it on to get used to it

For advanced users:

  • Experiment with different positions
  • Try deeper penetration and get to know your body better

Strap-ons are for everyone: straight, gay, non-binary, or trans. It's all about fun, trust, and connection.

HYGIENE AND MAINTENANCE

Strapons must be cleaned properly:

  1. Remove the dildo from the harness
  2. Wash with lukewarm water and mild soap
  3. Let it air dry

Storage: Store your strap-on in a dry, cool place, preferably in a separate bag or box.

SAFETY

Consent is crucial. Make sure your partner feels safe and comfortable. Discuss your wishes and boundaries before you begin. Use lubricant to make it more enjoyable. And always listen carefully to each other.

MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL ASPECTS

Strap-ons can help break down traditional gender roles. For many, they're a powerful tool for self-expression or for rediscovering sexual dynamics in a relationship.

STRAPONS IN THE BDSM WORLD

In BDSM, strapons are often used for dominance and submission. The wearer takes control, the receiver surrenders. A common example of this is pegging , where a woman penetrates her male partner with a strapon.

STRAPS FOR EVERYONE

  • Lesbian couples: To enable penetration and deepen the connection.
  • Straight couples: For pegging or to discover new forms of pleasure.
  • Trans people: Strap-ons can help affirm someone's gender identity and give them more control over their sexual experience.

STRAPS IN THE MEDIA

Strap-ons or strap-on dildos are increasingly appearing in films, TV shows, and books. Think of "Broad City" or "Deadpool." This makes the topic more accessible and less taboo. Sex education is also becoming more inclusive, and strap-ons are being included in that.

TECHNOLOGY AND THE FUTURE OF STRAPS

New technologies enable interactive strap-ons, such as through apps or remote-controlled models (teledildonics). Ideal for couples in long-distance relationships or those who enjoy experimenting with technology in bed.

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